Transforming Grace Lesson 4
October 28th, 2008INTRODUCTION: Think about some of the people you come in contact with regularly (neighbors, workmates, family, friends, acquaintances). What seem to be the basic motives behind the why they live the way they live and why they make the decisions they make? What makes them different than you? Would they think that they are different than you are in their motivations?
Central Idea: When we understand God’s magnificent and boundless grace, we become motivated by gratitude and love to respond with a life devoted to Him.
I Examining Grace
We stand everyday in the same grace that brought us justification. Just as grace in salvation is open to much misinterpretation and misunderstanding, so is grace in living. To avoid license, we tend to add legalism, and vis-a-versa. The solution to the problem is to be so gripped by the magnificence and boundless generosity of God’s grace that we respond out of gratitude rather than out of a sense of duty.
A The “Ought To” syndrome.
“I ought to read my Bible.” “I ought to witness.” “I ought to be more committed to my wife.” “I ought to be more disciplined.” “I ought to be more obedient.” While it is true that most of us should do more of these things, the question is what is behind the “ought?” The word “ought” carries the idea of obligation.
1 Obligated because of my debt
It is easy for us to understand the enormous cost of our redemption through the payment of Christ, and live with a sense of indebtedness.
Have you ever been bothered at Christmas time because someone gave you a gift or sent you a card, and now you feel like you have reciprocate? That is the idea here. Life lived with this type of motivation is empty, powerless, and will go without reward. The focus of my life is self, because I am motivated to pay off my debt.
Many people walk away from the faith because they feel that it is impossible to pay off their debt, so they just quit trying. Others convince themselves that no matter what they do, it is never good enough, so why bother?
Where do you think people get these sort of ideas? Do you think they come from other believers, from Pastor’s in pulpits, from parents?
2 Obligated because of my duty
“Happiness is not found by looking for it, rather it is stumbles over on the road to duty.”
How does the quote strike you? I would whole heartedly agree that life should not be lived with happiness as its goal, and that we will discover happiness as we carry out our commitments in life. However, we must be careful not to give the impression that life is about putting our noses to the spiritual grindstone and “toughing it out!”
God has not given us a list of spiritual duties that we are to fulfill. He hasn’t given us a checklist for us to fulfill. These very thoughts are the most paralyzing thing in all the world to genuine relationship. If God merely wanted men to carry out His wishes arbitrarily, He could easily have accomplished that by coercion. Instead, He purchased our redemption through grace.
Would you consider a marriage that is based completely on duty a good marriage? The next time you do something nice for your spouse and they acknowledge the kindness, respond to them by saying, “I am just doing what I have to do,” and see what kind of response you get? Why should we expect God’s response to be any different?
A life lived purely out of duty will be a life of empty service and sacrifice, and devoid of the joy of living by grace.
3 Obligated because of my guilt
There are many who due to their past pre-salvation, or due to their failings after conversion live their lives to always try to satisfy the crying of their own conscience.
Picture the parent who due to selfishness precipitates a divorce and realizes the great toll that the decision has their child, and desiring to still have a relationship with that child through feelings of great remorse begins to lavish him with gifts and trips, and even by allowing things that they never would have allowed before. In a sense, the motivation is to have a relationship with their child. The question is, what kind of relationship will they have? Is it truly the relationship the Child needs and actually wants? The relationship is actually being pursued in the fashion that it is in order to attempt to ease the guilt from the pain that they have caused their child.
How many believers live their lives this very way with God. Just as the relationship with the hurt child will never be what it is intended to be, so our relationship with our heavenly Father will also be skewed.
Micah 6:1-8 Hear ye now what the Lord saith; Arise, contend thou before the mountains, and let the hills hear thy voice. [2] Hear ye, O mountains, the Lord’s controversy, and ye strong foundations of the earth: for the Lord hath a controversy with his people, and he will plead with Israel. [3] O my people, what have I done unto thee? and wherein have I wearied thee? testify against me. [4] For I brought thee up out of the land of Egypt, and redeemed thee out of the house of servants; and I sent before thee Moses, Aaron, and Miriam. [5] O my people, remember now what Balak king of Moab consulted, and what Balaam the son of Beor answered him from Shittim unto Gilgal; that ye may know the righteousness of the Lord.
[6] Wherewith shall I come before the Lord, and bow myself before the high God? shall I come before him with burnt offerings, with calves of a year old? [7] Will the Lord be pleased with thousands of rams, or with ten thousands of rivers of oil? shall I give my firstborn for my transgression, the fruit of my body for the sin of my soul? [8] He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
The people of God are trying to carry out their obligation to God. They have focused on their works to the point that their was no genuine heart for God in their service. They, while trying to appease God, walked away from Him. In frustration (6-7), they have come to the place of quitting because they feel like they can never please God. On the other hand, God says that all of their service and sacrifice was absolutely pointless, in fact it was viewed by Him as their turning away from Him (3). What God wanted was a life marked by righteousness, fidelity, and humble fellowship.
B The Opportunity of grace
Matthew 15:8 This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me.
“The final test by which all actions shall be tried is motive.” Motive matters! God cares about our heart, in fact, He cares as much about our motivation as He does about our performance.
Grace affords us the opportunity to live for God out of gratitude and for the purpose of giving Him glory rather than obedience performed out the legalistic motive of fear of the consequences or to gain favor with God.
A heartfelt grasp of God’s grace – far from creating an indifferent or careless attitude in us – will actually provide us the only motivation that is pleasing to Him. Only when we are thoroughly convinced that the Christian life is entirely of grace are we able to serve Him out of a grateful and loving heart.
Having a God-ward motive is not a feeling or an inclination. Grace living is not merely doing what is right because I feel like it, and when I don’t feel like, I don’t. Motive is rational. It is the reasoned decision to live and serve due to gratitude and love.
A parent can care for a child because if he doesn’t the state will arrest him, or to get the child to stop screaming, or because he loves him. Only the last of these motives is not self-serving.
II Exploring Grace
A 1 Chron. 28:9 And thou, Solomon my son, know thou the God of thy father, and serve him with a perfect heart and with a willing mind: for the Lord searcheth all hearts, and understandeth all the imaginations of the thoughts: if thou seek him, he will be found of thee; but if thou forsake him, he will cast thee off for ever.
Proverbs 16:2 All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the Lord weigheth the spirits.
1 Cor. 4:5 Therefore judge nothing before the time, until the Lord come, who both will bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and will make manifest the counsels of the hearts: and then shall every man have praise of God.
Why are motives so important to God?
How do our motives affect the outcome of what we do?
Think of an example of how wrong motives can undo right action.
B Look for the false motives in these passages:
John 12:42-43 Nevertheless among the chief rulers also many believed on him; but because of the Pharisees they did not confess him, lest they should be put out of the synagogue: [43] For they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God.
Galatians 6:12-13 As many as desire to make a fair shew in the flesh, they constrain you to be circumcised; only lest they should suffer persecution for the cross of Christ. [13] For neither they themselves who are circumcised keep the law; but desire to have you circumcised, that they may glory in your flesh.
Col. 2:16-23 Let no man therefore judge you in meat, or in drink, or in respect of an holyday, or of the new moon, or of the sabbath days: [17] Which are a shadow of things to come; but the body is of Christ. [18] Let no man beguile you of your reward in a voluntary humility and worshipping of angels, intruding into those things which he hath not seen, vainly puffed up by his fleshly mind, [19] And not holding the Head, from which all the body by joints and bands having nourishment ministered, and knit together, increaseth with the increase of God.
[20] Wherefore if ye be dead with Christ from the rudiments of the world, why, as though living in the world, are ye subject to ordinances, [21] (Touch not; taste not; handle not; [22] Which all are to perish with the using;) after the commandments and doctrines of men? [23] Which things have indeed a shew of wisdom in will worship, and humility, and neglecting of the body; not in any honour to the satisfying of the flesh.
C Look for the right motives in these passages:
Romans 12:1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
2 Cor. 5:14-15 For the love of Christ constraineth us; because we thus judge, that if one died for all, then were all dead: [15] And that he died for all, that they which live should not henceforth live unto themselves, but unto him which died for them, and rose again.
2 Cor. 7:1 Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.
Rev. 4:11 Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created.
D For each area listed rate your motivations on a scale of 1 – selfish motives to 5 – godly motives.
_____ Time spent in prayer
_____ Time spent in worship (attending Church)
_____ Bible Study
_____ Bible reading
_____ Scripture reading
_____ Building relationships with unbelievers
_____ Helping young believers grow
_____ Fellowshipping with other believers
_____ Serving others
_____ Giving financially
CONCLUSION: Our only business is to love God, and delight ourselves in Him. All kinds of disciplines, no matter how rugged, are quite useless if not motivated by love for God.